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Change of my shoe ‘soul’-

5 Aug

My walk has been slow cautious and comparatively skillful today. I have been walking on my toes in these heels. This morning as I approached towards my car to drive myself to work- I took more time not only to reach the vehicle but also to shift my feet between clutch and break. I have been suitably aware that I am cautious. I was wearing flat sole shoes yesterday, I ran towards the car- drove it with a zoom. Yesterday allowed me to be aggressive in my walk and I literally ran up the stairs to reach my desk.
Today- I changed my shoe, changed the height of my sole or should I say ‘soul’, stood taller but all I could actually remember was that I need to be more responsible with my moves- I need to be cautious that tic tac toe of my heels do not make a noise disturbing peaceful walk of other’s around me- I had to be aware that I maintain right distance between my footsteps. Aggression and run accommodated with the heights of these heels might make me fall halting my journey for long, affecting my goals. As and when I raise my height- there comes a risen responsibility, awareness, cautiousness, need for stable moves, pacified aggression, calm steps, maintained footsteps, less noise, expanded view and spectrum-all with a tall affirmative walk.
My toes pain, my heel burns ankles, my knees gruel, my legs shake but I adore the height my heels provide- I adore the raised demands it asks me for!
Tomorrow I wear another set of footwear- I am hoping I walk in heels again tomorrow- that is with affirmation!

Wrong, Ethics and Morals

19 Aug

This is wrong, you are wrong, they were wrong, they wronged me, I don’t want to be wrong- We have heard all of this repeatedly. At times through others and at other times made us hear ourselves by ourselves. This made me take a plunge to find appropriate meaning of the dreaded word – ‘Wrong’. Dictionary states it to be – ‘unsuitable or undesirable manner, unjust, dishonest, or immoral action’
This further lead me to find- what are ‘Morals’? Dictionary describes it like this-
‘Concerned with the principles of right and wrong behavior and the goodness or badness of human character.’
Vicious circle I am in from meaning of ‘Wrong’ to ‘Morals’ which themselves define them through meaning of ‘Wrong’.
This did give me another quest to find the meaning of word-
‘Ethics’. This is what dictionary talks about it –
Moral principles that govern a person’s or group’s behavior.
The moral correctness of specified conduct.

In all these various definitions, parameters for being ‘wrong’, ‘ethical’ and ‘moral’ have not been told. Strange! So I define my morally and ethically wrong aspects through my own heart and mind? If that is a ‘Yes’ I absolutely adore this freedom, if that is a ‘No’ then it means they are defined for me through others around me. That makes me type a SAD face.
In the perspective of their definitions all these three words seem so beautiful and required. In light of their vision for human kind, they seem so clueless and fancy like one of those ‘curly cursive handwriting’ fonts – only to be adored for their resemblance to beautiful petals and leaves however nowhere to be legible and understood.
My ethically strong and morally not wronged behavior comes in the pure love I have for those who I adore for what they are and not what they can give back to me. It comes in the passion I carry to make my speech being heard by those who are connected with me through the hearts and not with length of time I’ve been with them. This link has made our hearts shuffle red hot pumping blood – making the passion get fused and ultimately weave between those hearts.
I stand morally, ethically not wrong but strong in my human aspects. On my scale little higher for myself.